We love weddings, yes we do. But there is nothing like your very own wedding.

But not only was our wedding amazing and the beginning of a grand adventure, it offered us a chance to learn more about ourselves, what matters to us and how to be better wedding photographers. Here are some of the things we learned:

  1. We love, love, love the photos of our family and friends. Our pics are pretty but seeing them happy and engaging with each other always makes us smile.
  2. Wedding time is a real thing. As the bride and groom, you have no idea that you are late or how long you are actually taking, because you really wish you could stop time. Alas you can’t. Everything zips by. That’s the bad news. The good news is that it is still amazing, and hopefully you get some great documentation of the day so you can relive it. Plus planning more events for the weekend makes it seem a little longer.
  3. What people care about- you. They want to help. Let them.
  4. What people don’t care about- wedding favors and aisle runners.
  5. Hire good people and let it go.
  6. In particular, surround yourself with pros you trust and like. You will be more at ease and happier about handing over the checks.
  7. Take time to enjoy the day. Look around, especially during the ceremony. Let the warmth sweep over you. Breathe it in. This is some really good stuff.

And now here’s a little glimpse at August 28, 2005. It’s lucky 13!

Venues: Oakland Morcom Rose Garden, Hacienda de Las Flores | Photo creds to: Christine Luong, Peter Chang, Bob Kaplan and Jay Kelly Photography.

Bride extends tea to father for Chinese tea ceremony

 

Groom hugs his father before wedding

 

Groom and bride pose for wedding portrait

 

Chinese wedding banner

 

Groomsmen carry chuppah before wedding

 

Outdoor wedding in San Francisco

 

Bride and groom marry under Chinese chuppah

 

Bride and groom say their wedding vows

 

Bride and groom say vows among wedding guests

 

Bride and groom place hands on each other's hearts at alter

 

Groomsmen hold hands

 

Groom stomps the glass at wedding

 

Bride and groom celebrate marriage at wedding

 

Bride and groom pose on bridge

 

Bride and groom smile at each other under the sun

 

Huge group of wedding guests pose for picture outside

 

Groom dips bride during first dance

 

Wedding guests laugh on dance floor

 

Wedding guests dance outside on dance floor

 

Bride dances with father

 

Bride and groom leave wedding for hotel

 

Final wedding guests dance away the night